Using Code Words In Your Psychic Reading

 

 

The day has arrived. You’re going in for a psychic reading. You’ve never been to a psychic before, and you’re hoping you’ll get a great reading like your friend Alice did. You want to be in control of the session so you establish a secret code word or symbol in advance that the psychic must say for you to believe he or she is legitimate.

Unfortunately, that requirement may reduce your chances of getting a good reading. Here are two reasons why. By demanding that the psychic give you one specific code word or symbol, to convince you that he or she is trustworthy, you may miss out on a great reading. He or she may be able to give you 30 -40 other pieces of information equally valuable to you as your code words but you won’t hear any of it until you hear the secret code.

The second reason is that by setting up code words and symbols you come to your reading as if you know how this all works. Nobody knows for sure how this all works. Remember you’re not dealing with logic. In fact, trying to be logical makes it less likely that a psychic will be able to read for you. When you create a barrier for the psychic information doesn’t flow freely to them. Surprisingly, it doesn’t create a barrier if you say nothing during the session except yes or no. In mediumship readings, mediums prefer you don’t tell them anything. He or she wants to tell you what they’re receiving from a spirit. 

For your 30 – 60 minute session, let go of trying to direct the psychic reading. Let it be what it’s going to be. Suspend your disbelief that a psychic could know these things. When you hear something that seems farfetched or contrary to what you think or believe, try not to be dismissive. Certain information may be in the future. Also, wait and check with friends and family who might know things that you don’t know.  If you really feel like you’re not connecting, speak up! You need to say something within the first ten minutes. If you say something, you may be able to get into sync. Make sure you know what the psychic’s refund policy is as it can vary.  

 

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Haunted Boston with MaryLee- Special Halloween Ghosts Tours & Victorian Seance

 

It’s that spooky time of year! Will you be getting into the Halloween spirit and join the fun or sit on the sidelines eating candy? What costume are you wearing this year? I’m really psyched to give ghost tours again and hope to see you at one of my haunted Halloween events! I have wonderful news! Travel writer Laurie Bain Wilson featured SOC in her article on Haunted Boston which is coming out this weekend in the Boston Globe. The Spirits of Charlestown Haunted Historical Ghost Tours is one of the recommended Halloween must do’s.  For ghost tours and other Halloween events – please see below. 

Thursday, October 15th, MaryLee is host Kathy Giordano’s special Halloween guest on Charlestown and Beyond on BNN. Check out the YouTube video of the Halloween Show   Click Here To See Video

Saturday, October 24th, 12:00pm – 3:00pm, Authentic Victorian Seance, First Spiritualist Church of Quincy, 40 West Street, Quincy, MA. Call ahead to reserve a seat at one of the tables with a Victorian Medium. Email: laura.a.mccarthy@comcast.net / telephone 781-871-4625.

Saturday, October 24th, 7:00PM Spirits of Charlestown Ghost Tour Leaving from the fountain at City Square Park. Reservations strongly recommended. $5 discount when you buy your tickets on this website.

Sunday, October 25th, 7:00PM Spirits of Charlestown Ghost Tour Leaving from the fountain at City Square Park. Reservations strongly recommended. $5 discount when you buy your tickets on this website.

Tuesday, October 27th, 7:00PM Spirits of Charlestown Ghost Tour Leaving from the fountain at City Square Park. Reservations strongly recommended. $5 discount when you buy your tickets on this website.

Friday, October 30th, 7:00PM Spirits of Charlestown Ghost Tour Leaving from the fountain at City Square Park. Reservations strongly recommended. $5 discount when you buy your tickets on this website.

Saturday, October 31st, 5:00pm, Bunker Hill Monument, Find me among the masses for a special Halloween treat. I’ll be wearing my tour costume – a black Victorian mourning dress. HAPPY HALLOWEEN!

 

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Ten Things To Expect From A Psychic Reading

 


 

Many people today are looking for meaning and purpose in their lives. Their search for answers, may cause them to seek out a psychic intuitive or spiritual counselor. If you are curious, here are ten things that you can expect when you make an appointment for a spiritual counseling session.  (Please note that psychic intuitive, spiritual counselor, and psychic are all used interchangeably in this blog post).

1. Expect you will need an open mind. The surest way to sabotage your session is to insist that you will only believe the psychic if they say specific things.  Expect to let go and let the reading be what it’s going to be. You should walk away feeling good about your session. Sometimes, you may not like what you hear.. Come prepared to think outside the box.

2. Expect that if your friend had a great reading with a spiritual counselor, it’s very likely your session will also go great. However, there is no guarantee that your session will go as well. You and your friend are different people with different styles.. When a reading goes well sometimes, it’s because the readee is more relaxed and open because he or she relates to the reader’s style. Psychic counselors don’t connect with every person who walks in the door. Speak up if you don’t think they’re connecting with you.

3. Expect to tell the reader very little until it’s time to ask questions. You want the intuitive to give you unbiased insights. The more you tell the counselor about yourself and your situation, the less they can tell you. You don’t want to walk away from your reading thinking they were just repeating what you told them. Some people are naturally chatty and want to volunteer information because they think it’s helpful for the reader to have more background information. In fact, you need to be listening more than talking. Be open to what you’re hearing without saying, “NO” too quickly. You could be hearing another perspective.

4. Expect that you won’t be able to control the content of the session. There is a reason why you came in for spiritual counseling. Why you came and the questions you have should be addressed at some point in the reading. However, the initial focus needs to be based on your reader’s intuitions and spiritual guides. Afterall, you made your appointment because you wanted guidance that came from outside your own thoughts.  When you’re listening to a reading, you should be hearing only what that psychic is receiving. You shouldn’t be hearing their personal opinions or any embellishing information.

5. Expect to cover a range of conscious and unconscious issues. The focus of the session is to zero in on the mental, emotional, spiritual, financial and physical life challenges you’re facing today. Expect that the spiritual guidance you receive will be down to earth and practical – not woo-woo. You’ll be hearing plenty of information that hits home with you. You may hear a different viewpoint that allows you to see situtations in a whole new light.

6. Expect that if you took the time to find a well respected psychic, your psychic has integrity in their readings.  When they reading for you, they’re not fishing and waiting for you to bite. They’re using their intuitive and spiritual gifts, honed through meditation, prayer and healing work, to give you spiritual guidance. The information you receive isn’t coming from the psychic; it’s coming through them. Having said that, know that your reader is human and may misinterpret an image he or she sees, or words they hear. 

7. Expect to feel clearer as the session goes on. Worries, fears, and anxiety, may be distorting your perceptions. You may also be projecting your “stuff” onto others and vice versa. Your psychic should be able to give you insights that help to calm your mind and quiet your fears. You should feel more resolved and at peace at the end of your reading.

8. Expect to have emotional issues such as numbing your feelings come up in your reading. If you’re afraid to confront something or someone in your life, you may have shut down emotionally and left things unresolved. According to a core belief in alternative medicine, unresolved negative emotions may cause illness. Expect unresolved issues to come up in the session. Let your reader know if there are areas that you’d prefer not to get into. Do know that intuitively or through guides it may be that they are given information that is exactly what they have to talk about with you.

9. Expect to walk out of the session feeling saner than you did when you walked in. You’ll also find as you work with the psychic, if the intuitive information resonates with you, and your intuition hasn’t been reliable lately, a good intuitive session gives your intuition a boost so it feels like you can trust it again.

10. Expect that no matter what you hear in an intuitive or spiritual counseling session, YOU will have to take responsibility for your choices and decisions. You may reorder your priorities as a result of what you heard. You are free to implement all, some, or none of what you heard in your reading.

Three Simple Ways to Keep Your Sanity & Your Sobriety Through the Holidays

 

Do you get overwhelmed during the holidays? Don’t worry you’re not alone!  Expectations are high of the magical experience the holidays are supposed to be and though you may feel joyous and grateful for your many blessings, sometimes you get carried away with the parties, social events, gift giving and fabulous food. Try this helpful check-in before the season starts so you can be more proactive this year.

Here are three simple ideas to keep you calm, cool, sane and sober during the holidays. 1) Ask yourself what the holidays are really about for you. What would make the holidays more fulfilling this year? Should you do more, reach out more, or do less, and stop reaching so much? Is there a better way of celebrating and gift giving that would be better for you this year? 2) Know how much money you have to spend. Be clear where you want your bank account to be on January 2nd. If you’re flush – go for it! If you’re not, there are lots of ways to celebrate the holidays such as setting time aside to be with the people you love, donating your time to a worthy cause instead of giving gifts, or being creative and giving gifts from the heart. 3) Be realistic about your energy and your time. Look at your calendar. Do you need to impose holiday ground rules with yourself? Do you need to add to or take away from what’s on your calendar? How do you want to feel mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually in January?

Managing and protecting your energy is as simple as applying mindfulness to your activities. Take a piece of paper from a large sketch pad and list everything that you have to do between now and January 2nd. Include work, entertaining, attending parties, cooking, cleaning, buying gifts, phone calls, cards, emails, tips, and traveling. Apply tips 1,2 and 3. Develop an alternative strategy, if necessary.

I wish many blessings for you and your family and friends, and the happiest and healthiest holiday season!,

Warmly, MaryLee

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Developing Your Psychic Abilities

 

Last night I taught my second Intuitive Development class in two weeks. I hadn’t taught psychic development for awhile so I decided to begin with a meditation and breathwork before getting into the psychic exercises .This is usually the best place to start so that everyone gets settled inside themselves before the real psychic work begins. After we began the psychic portion of class,  I enjoyed watching students as they connected to people, places and things through their psychic senses. You could tell by seeing everyone’s facial expressions that this was a new playground. With their eyes closed, I could see students shifting around in their bodies as they connected with each object. Imagine using your normal five senses and then extend your senses out a little bit more. I asked everyone to hold the image of an orange or a grape in their mind’s eye and experience it through each of their psychic senses known as the “clairs”. Clairvoyance, Clairaudience, Clairsentience, Clairgustafson, and Clairolfactory, which means clear seeing, clearing hearing, clear feeling, clear tasting and clear smelling. Each person has a unique combination of several of the different clairs. Usually one of the clairs is stronger than the others. We receive psychic information through the” clairs.”

Because it’s too stimulating for a sensitive person, psychics can’t walk around in everyday life with their psychic senses open all the time. As you can imagine, it’s overwhelming when their is an over abundance of audio, visual and sensory information. Psychics have to shut it down. Developing your psychic skills is something that has to be done gradually so the body can tolerate a higher level of sensitivity. As a result of watching students awaken their sixth-sensory selves last night, I came away with a new appreciation for why meditation and breath work is so important when you are working with your psychic abilities. They strengthen the mind-body to be able to handle the increased sensitivity. It’s imperative that any student of psychic arts, who is serious about learning these skills, has a daily meditation or breathwork technique.

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