Recovering Emotionally from Trauma and Natural Disasters: *My 9/11 Anniversary Perspective, Boston, MA

 

We just passed the anniversary of 9/11 earlier this month. Do you remember where you were and who you were with when you heard the news about the Twin towers? I bet you do. Every person I’ve asked this question to recalls with great clarity. This is common with group (or collective) trauma.  

How about July 11, 2017? You might; that was just a couple months ago, though more than likely, unless there was something occurring in your life with emotional importance, you’d need to work to remember that date.

In Baz Luhrmann’s song Sunscreen – and if you haven’t heard the song, I encourage you to give it a listen – he says:

Don’t worry about the future. Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind. The kind that blindside you at 4 PM on some idle Tuesday. Despite this sage advice, worry is our tendency.

My friend Daniel was in New York that morning. He’s a yogi, and had just come out of a class with a visiting dignitary teacher at Chelsea Piers, where 23rd Street meets the West Side Highway.

“I knew something was off right away. I got to the street corner and a bunch of people were gathered there. They were eagerly talking to each other. Some were pointing up over downtown.”

People don’t tend to stop and talk on the Streets in New York. When he told me the story of his experience there that day, two things stood out.

He recounted: “I joined the group there and a man in a business suit told me that a plane had crashed into one of the towers. I was looking up when the second plane hit. It happened so fast that I couldn’t see the plane. What I did see though, and what changed my life forever, was the explosion on the other side of the building. Flames and smoke poured out.

‘Immediately I went from thinking that we’d experienced a bizarre and tragic accident (a plane crashing into a building) to the realization that this was not an accident. The next moment brought the terrifying question: ‘what else is going to happen now?'”

Most of us are unlikely to experience a terrorist attack, or even a life-threatening hurricane, earthquake or fire. And while that’s generally something positive – certainly I don’t wish those kind of experiences upon anyone – my friend Daniel, and some of the people in the midst of the world’s current natural disasters, may have an advantage over us.

I asked him how his life was forever changed.

I knew – and I mean knew deep in my bones – that there really is no certainty. We think we know what’s going to happen, and the truth is anything can happen in any moment.”

One lesson we might get from this is that given the truth that we never really know the future, we do well to prioritize what’s truly important to us.

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I’ll let you in on a little psychic industry secret. My work is more about the present than the future. Sure, I do get impressions and visions, and they turn out to be accurate most of the time. More importantly though, I help people understand themselves and what’s happening now – and from that, they are much better at creating their own destinies.

For a few days after 9/11 New York’s atmosphere radically changed from the cold, impersonal city it’s known for to a village where people talked to each other, looked out for each other.

In the midst of disaster, a common question becomes: ‘what matters to me?’

What would you be doing or saying if you weren’t ‘sure’ about the future. Baz goes on to say: Do one thing everyday that scares you every day.

Perhaps right now is a great time to align your life with what matters to you. If you would would like to seek guidance in this realm, please get in touch or schedule an appointment today.

*I put this blog post on hold to address Hurricane Harvey. The message in the post is still as pertinent as it was on September 11th.

Keeping Your Psychic Cool When Everyone Around You Is Losing Their Mind

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It’s really easy to get overwhelmed and lost in the chaos that life can become sometimes. We all have family responsibilities, bills to pay, deadlines to meet, coworkers to deal with, and perhaps quite appropriate to the current times, concerns about political or societal injustices. Losing your cool and giving in to anxiety and negative energy affects not only yourself and the decisions you make (which can often exacerbate the challenges you’re facing), but it impacts those around you, permeating your closest relationships.

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As one of Boston’s best psychic mediums, I have found there are some ways to manage this anxiety so that you can not only feel better in the present moment, but also make better decisions with a calm mind.

#1: Meditation opens you to the wisdom of your higher self and the Universe.

Connecting spiritually with yourself and the Universe through meditation can bring incredible clarity and serenity at even the most turbulent of times. It may help you see the situation in a new light, or uncover otherwise hidden solutions. And while you may not be able to change the circumstances around you, you can change the way you react to them – which will impact the decisions you make, inevitably affecting the way your future unfolds.

#2: Positive daily affirmations help you stave off negativity.

Choose an affirmation that helps you maintain balance and be the best person you can be, such as, “Be love.” First thing in the morning, and last thing at night, take a look in the mirror and tell yourself to “Be love.” If during the day you find yourself thinking, speaking, or acting in a negative way about yourself or others, stop dead in your tracks and make a shift. Repeat your positive affirmation, “Be love.” You will find it can instantly change your perspective and mood. You won’t feed into the negativity of others, or spread and perpetuate it.

#3: Staying thankful keeps you grounded.

Even during the toughest of times, find something to be thankful for, no matter how big or small.  It will remind you how truly abundant your life is, help you keep perspective, and invite more positivity in.

As one of Boston’s best psychic mediums, I have helped thousands of clients over the past 30 years find inner peace and serenity. If you’d like to book a reading with me, CLICK HERE.

 

Space Clearing Your Home To Start The New Year!

 

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Starting Your New Year Right

By now, you’ve probably had enough time to fully recover from the busy holiday season and are settling nicely into the new year. For many of us, this means putting into action the resolutions or commitments we’ve made to ourselves to try to make this year a better one than the last. But, before you think you’re ready to start fresh, there just might be one more step you should consider to help you get the most out of 2017!

 Taking some time to clear out clutter from the past – both the physical and energetic – is a great way to make sure you have room enough in the present for all the wonderful things to come into your life.

How can space clearing help me improve my life?

Space clearing allows us to rid our homes and offices of the physical clutter and negative residual energy that we as human beings, as well as the spaces we inhabit, hang onto from years past.

Think about it. A space that is untidy and disorderly makes us feel chaotic. Clutter is made up of the things we’re avoiding focusing our attention on, like that ever-mounting pile of mail, bills, or paperwork, a closet full of items we don’t want or need anymore (but refuse to throw out), or that bin of overflowing laundry. New energy, new life gets caught in these spaces.

Well, the same is true for the energy we carry with us on our person, and that accumulates in our homes and offices. If the energy is negative as a result of illness, loss, arguments, and so on that we experienced in those spaces, that energy remains and builds up unless and until it is cleansed. Just like that pile of untended to laundry, the negative energy will stay put until you address it. And while it’s there, it blocks positivity from flowing into your life. Cleansing your environment allows you to balance the energy in your space, and make room for the positive things that the New Year will bring.

Does space clearing rid my home or office of negative energy?

Instead of putting off the clutter, focus directly on it. Set aside half an hour a day until you’ve tackled it. Clean out the physical debris. Sell, donate, or discard the things you know you won’t need or use in the near future but are afraid to let go of. Organize the mess. Put everything in its right place, so it’s not waiting around for you to finally get to.

Pay particular attention to the corners of your home, where energy tends to go stagnant. You might want to put a plant there, or a wind chime to let energy and life move through it more easily. And don’t forget to purge your closet of the things you’ve stored away and have neglected for years.

You may also consider restoring the energetic balance in your home or office by performing a ritual or ceremony that allows you to focus your intentions on cleansing the energy in your space and inviting in harmony and balance, such as smudging your home, burning a candle or incense, or ringing a bell in every space and corner to improve its vibrational energy.

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As one of Boston’s best psychic mediums, I offer space clearing services for both home and office spaces. To contact me to find out how I can help you have a better 2017, CLICK HERE.

Top Ten Reasons To Do A Space Clearing

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Space clearing is an ancient ritual that dates back to 1500BCE in Egypt when they burned incense to honor the gods and to enhance relaxation and sleep. As it turns out, the Egyptians weren’t the only culture who did space clearings. Native Americans burned plants such as cedar and sage to use as spiritual “smoke baths” to cleanse the body and the home environment. In ancient China, they employed a technique called feng shui that balanced energies (chi) in buildings which promoted well-being and auspicious fortune

Space clearings during ancient times were motivated primarily by religious and spiritual beliefs. Today, we have practical reasons to perform space clearings that may or may not be spiritual.

Top Ten Reasons Why People Get Space Clearings

1) To speed up the process of selling a home or business
2) To remove any negative energy from a home or business they’re purchasing
3) To remove divorce energy from a home
4) To heal mental, emotional and physical illnesses
5) To remove the residue of arguments and conflict
6) To remove the build-up of stressful thoughts and emotions.
7) To promote relaxation, meditation and serenity
8) To raise the vibration so that lower vibration people stay away.
9) To raise the vibration to attract in higher vibrational events and results
10) To set the stage for new thoughts, novel solutions, and enhanced creativity

Though my personal preference for clearing space is to use sound, there are many methods. The most common techniques involve smudgings, oils, incense, clapping, energy healing techniques such as Reiki, herbs, chanting, prayer, misting with essential oils, calling on spirit guides and ancient masters. There isn’t one right way to clear space.

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In my next post I will discuss how space clearings work. This article is part of a series on Space Clearing. I’m interested in your questions and experiences. Please leave your comments below!  

Psychic As Healers

In the psychic community, healing has now become intertwined within our culture. Even society at large looks to the wisdom of the ancients and connects it to our evolving knowledge of spirit energy. As a global community, we have entered the age of the psyche, an age of energy where our intuition, emotions and spirit knowledge collide with our physical five senses.

We now search for balance between these two systems, when we find it, we are whole and we become open to healing. Those of us that do this well, can offer healing and teach the techniques to others so that they may reap the benefits of a balanced psychic mind.

Please note that alternative therapies and seeking the services of a psychic or healer does not replace going to Western Medical doctors. Psychics cannot diagnose. They can only tell you where your you have excess or depleted energy.

Psychics and healers are drawn to modalities right for them. There is a broad range of healing techniques. I offer three modalities in addition to my psychic practice: Reiki, EFT and Space Clearing.

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Reiki

Reiki is a non-physical form of healing that uses the life force energy of all living things in the universe and is believed to be spiritually guided by a Higher Intelligence. It is not meant to be seen as a cure for any disease, but a way to bring your body to its fullest healing potential while receiving other forms of healthcare.

Practitioners and teachers involved with Reiki will have completed many different training courses and learned the techniques to work with energy, but every psychic has different ways of feeling and channeling its flow. However, all Reiki Masters transfer this energy into their students or patients by means of touch, or placing hands above the client’s body, to trigger the natural healing processes in order to rehabilitate both physical and emotional well-being.

 

 Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)

EFT works similar to acupuncture but it does not use needles. Instead, it uses acupressure based on the same energy points in the body which can help remove negative emotions, reduce food cravings, prevent or reduce chronic pain and help implement positive goals for yourself and your future. Acupressure is a form of tapping that allows a psychic stimulate the energy inside the body to promote natural healing.

Also, using specific affirmation methodology during this treatment helps one rewire their minds for success. It restores the balance in ones life and allows negative thoughts and energy to be released.

Space Clearing  

Cleaning and clearing the energy in the space that you live and work. This is an exciting new area. Please check my blog in the next few weeks for a series of articles on my space clearing experiences with clients, techniques ,and case studies.

Psychics are known to use these and many other Eastern treatments (alternative therapies) while encouraging the use of Western medicine, as they both compliment one another. Psychic healing should not be seen as a cure, but it helps get to the core issues people have that create illness. Remember, toxic emotions that are not resolved will stay in the energy field and wreak havoc on your body and mind. It’s always best to clear up negative emotions like anger, rage, fear, resentment, and guilt before it leads to serious illness.