What is the Difference Between a Ghost and a Spirit? Boston’s Top Psychic Medium Explains

Who does Boston’s top psychic medium communicate with?

With Halloween around the corner, and haunted houses popping up, it’s a perfect time for us to clarify this fairly common question. When people are new to the conversation about how psychics work, it’s an understandable one, and even more so this time of year. Many of us have grown up with childhood fears about ghosts and goblins, and of course movies have done a lot to scare us out of our wits too. 

Some have asked me how I can rely upon the information I receive, and might the communication be coming from unreliable sources. Or worse, sources that wish to do us harm. For many, simply the idea of communicating with beings that are not in bodies, that most people do not see, is a stretch, and anything that’s at the edge of, or beyond, our comfort zone, automatically triggers a fear response in us.

Boston Ghosts & How Mediums Connect

Before I get into the subject of ghosts, I want to point out that we have no proof that ghosts even exist. I frequently communicate with spirits and have often wondered if ghosts and spirits are the same thing. First, we’ll talk about ghosts.

Ghosts are portrayed to us in many ways, and other than Casper, the majority of ghosts are cast as harmful. Actually, it’s not that ghosts are necessarily harmful however they are usually thought to be in some distress at the time of their passing.

What we call ghosts are typically thought to be the spirit or soul of someone who’s died and for one reason or another has not moved on to the next appropriate realm. We’ll leave aside the question of what realms we go to after death here; some say there are different energetic or astral planes that relate to what is often referred to as Heaven or Hell.

 For our purposes, what is important to note is the common belief that the reason Ghosts have not ‘moved on’ is that they have ‘unfinished business’ or resentment of some sort left from their experience in the physical body. And furthermore being stuck between two worlds often stems from the ghost having suffered, been mistreated or died as a victim of traumatic violence.

At the heart of the initiation of the United State’s revolution, Boston is certainly a place where many have died violent deaths . What’s important to know is that according to ghost mythology whatever the cause of them becoming ghosts, from whatever time period, they are seldom dangerous or malevolent. Instead, it’s alleged that they are lost and need assistance to trust that it’s okay and safe for them evolve to the next stage of their (after) life.

 Psychic Mediums Connect with Spirits

According to ghost legends; the biggest and most important difference between spirits and ghosts is that while spirits are also beings without bodies, they are not ‘stuck’ as ghosts are. Spirits can come to the earth plane, and though invisible are always around us.

After completing an exhaustive paranormal project, I came to believe that ghosts are not stuck. In fact, my experiences with ghosts seemed to be the same type of experience that I have with spirits as a medium. My views have changed and may evolve again should I do more study or have an experience that proves my current belief false.

There is mostly agreement among psychics that spirits can also be called angels, guides, spirit guides or ascended masters; they might be friends or family who have ‘crossed over’ and yet come back to assist us. And that is the most important hallmark of a spirit: they are universally of assistance. We can say that they have evolved since their 3D incarnation, and while existing at various degrees of ‘enlightenment’, they are all liberated and thus have a level of wisdom that is guided by love and light, and is for our highest good.

How A Top Boston Psychic Medium Communicates with Ghosts and Spirits

While it is intriguing to believe that ghosts exist, and can be mischievous or even occasionally malicious, for me as a psychic, ghosts may be much more than their scary reputations. For any of you who come into contact with ghosts, the thing to know is that as humans, we are limited in our understanding of anything not human.

In conclusion, when I communicate with spirits, it’s immediately clear to me that I’m working with energy that can only be described as pure love. I sense the essence of the person they were in life and I’m sensitive to their unique relationship with the client in front of me. They come with unconditional love, insight and support. I fully appreciate the sacred responsibility to work with the Divine in this way and to get it right.

If you like to learn more about connecting with ghosts and spirits, schedule an appointment today. I am available for both in-person and skype bookings.  

Happy Halloween.

 

Intuitive Coaching: How Working with Boston Psychic Could be Your Bullet Train to Success

What happens for you when you hear the words ‘life coach’? Or ‘intuitive coach’?

When I first heard these terms I was confused. To me coaching was reserved for the sports realm. And when I got past that, and considered deeper into what a ‘life’ coach might be, and when I saw some of the people who were promoting themselves as life coaches, I scoffed and dismissed it.

Many of us were taught the staunch value of independence and self-reliance. Indeed they are important values, and yet as a culture, and in many of our individual lives, these values have taken such weight as to block us from creating what we want in our lives with much more ease, grace and speed.

In Japan there is a bullet train that rockets passengers at speeds of up to 320 km/ hour. The experience is so different from our usual ways of traveling on the ground that most people are shocked at first.

Picture this: you stow your bags, sit in your comfortable train seat, pull out your book or laptop or are just gazing out the window – then the train begins moving. At first it’s normal, though soon the velocity increases so fast you feel like it’s some kind of new carnival ride. You’re pinned to your seatback. While your cheeks are not quite rocketship-flapping, you can feel them being sucked toward the back of your skull (with the awareness that it’s probably not your best look).

What’s even more amazing though, is that after a few minutes like this, the newness of it fades, as do the sensations, and soon enough this speed becomes your new normal. You get up and walk around, go to the restroom, order a beverage.

From Japan to Boston – intuitive coaching as a medium to the fast track

Especially those of us who grew up in New England, steeped in the Yankee mentality of hard work – and sometimes even with the idea of suffering being a badge of honor – tend to have some skepticism toward easier and faster ways of doing things.

The Bullet train is a lot like coaching. We can drive, or take the regular train. We’ll get where we want to go sooner or later, even if it takes a long time and the ride is bumpy. Utilizing a coach is a way of saying ‘I’ve taken the hard way long enough. Now I’m ready for some speed and ease.’

It’s only for you if you’re you’re wanting to get where you want to go in your life – career, family, finances, relationships – with less pain and delay. When would now be a good time to create all that you dream of?

Your Boston Psychic and Intuitive Coach

 As Boston’s top intuitive and psychic, I’ve gotten to experience the benefits of coaching from a few angles. I wouldn’t be where I am without mentors, guides and coaches. Their guidance and support has saved me so much time and effort, and ultimately money too. I’m extra lucky in that I’ve also been blessed with a clear line of communication from Spirit.

On the other side of the intuitive coaching relationship I’m also grateful for the opportunities I’ve had to support and guide thousands of people, from entrepreneurs to athletes to stay-at-home parents.

With an intuitive coach, the benefits and blessings are even greater in that in addition to the coach’s support, you get to receive directly from spirit as well. I’m often amazed and touched at the magic that occurs. Sure, I’ve got a lot of experience and wisdom to share and I know what questions to ask to elicit your own answers. And when your higher self and Spirit conspire to communicate directly to you through me, that’s pure grace – and the results speak for themselves.

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3 Tips To Help You Get The Most Out Of Your Psychic Medium Reading

As one of Boston’s top psychic mediums in practice for almost 30 years, I have helped many clients communicate with their loved ones who have passed over. If it’s your first time getting a psychic medium reading, or if you simply want to improve the readings you’ve been having, here are three tips to help you get the most out of the experience.

Tip #1: No alarms and no surprises.

In order to get the best possible reading, you want to ensure as clear a communication and connection as possible. If this is a phone reading, choose a private, quiet space where you won’t be disturbed or interrupted. If this is an in-person meeting, give yourself ample time – with a little to spare – to get to the location so you aren’t rushing. Those few minutes you’re early will allow you to be relaxed and open.

You’ll also want to make sure you have nothing that may be upsetting or overly exciting scheduled immediately before – or certainly during – your appointment that might divert your attention or occupy your thoughts. Your goal is to be totally present, relaxed, and calm. You see, your energy will affect both yourself and the medium. If you’re in a frazzled state, or thinking about some other pressing issue or meeting you need to be at, you may not hear or recognize the messages you do receive.

Tip #2: Connecting with your psychic medium.

This is crucial. If I am receiving and giving you messages that don’t make any sense to you, please be patient. The spirit that’s coming through is doing their best to lower their vibration to communicate. I am raising my vibration to meet that spirit somewhere in the middle. The reading should settle in once the vibrational connection is right. The spirit may also be new to communicating and not quite sure how it works yet. Of course, if after 10 – 15 minutes you’re still not feeling a connection, tell me and we can decide together whether to continue or end the reading.

Tip #3: Keep an open mind.

While it’s understandable – and can even be beneficial – to have a healthy bit of skepticism going into a reading, you don’t want to be so closed to the experience that you miss out on messages intended for you. Your psychic medium will likely tell you intimate, accurate, and compelling details about your lost loved one that come through during the reading. These details, also known as “evidence,” should prove the identiy of the spirit who is communcating.

A message might come through that you’re unsure about. The way most psychic mediums, including myself, receive information is not linear. We get a lot of messages, sometimes all at once, and we must describe  to you what we see, hear, feel, or know without interpreting. If we interpret the image – we might get it wrong. We describe the image and let you interpret it.

Some things you may not know about your loved one. It may seem like a miss when you hear certain information. Check with a family or friend who is open to spirit communication to see if they may know details that your loved one provided that you don’t know.

Some messages might not make a whole lot of sense to you at the moment you hear it, but will in the near future. You may also feel you’re on the spot in your session. Many people experience, “psychic amnesia” at some time in their session and can’t connect with important details such as their mother’s maiden name. Most mediums know this happens and are not deterred. We know that if a spirit is determined to connect with you, they’ll figure out how to get through to you.

For additional advice on what to expect and how best to prepare for your reading, check out these Reading Tips.

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Advice From Boston’s Top Psychic On How To Manifest Love In Your Life

As one of Boston’s best psychic mediums, I often have clients come to me seeking answers or assurances about their future, including matters of the heart. If you have wondered if and when you’ll find love – either for the first time in your life, or ever again – you are not alone. It’s a natural human desire that we all crave.

WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP MANIFEST LOVE IN MY LIFE?

While I am able to help my clients gain the self-awareness, self-assuredness, clarity, and serenity that opens them up to receive the love they seek, there are a few things I encourage everyone to practice on a daily basis to help manifest authentic love in their lives.

#1: Listen to – and trust – your gut.

When we’re confronted with a decision we need to make, deep down, we always know what the right path is. Problem is, in today’s chaotic world, we’re pulled in so many directions that we’re often disconnected or too busy to really examine how a particular course of action makes us feel. Even just 5 minutes of quiet meditation can help you analyze what you’re feeling – and it is that feeling you need to trust.

#2: Learn from the past, so that you can move forward.

Every single one of us has – and will – face difficult situations in our lives. Depending on our propensity for resilience, we can either dwell on or ignore it (both of which can keep you stuck and susceptible to having the issue repeat itself over and over until you address it), or we can learn the lesson we’re meant to so that we can heal the wound and move forward. If you have had a particularly harrowing event or issue befall you, ask yourself what you’re meant to learn from it, and how it can help you become a stronger person for it.

 #3: Understand that your beliefs are what create your future.

We bring into our lives that which we believe to be true. If you harbor the belief that you are unloveable, it’s almost guaranteed you will not find true love – or if you do, you will give it up because you don’t feel you deserve it. Take the time to examine your beliefs and analyze whether they might not be distorted. Visualize very clearly how you want your life to be – from how you feel, who is in your life and how they make you feel, right down to what you’re wearing and doing. The more believable you make the life you want, the closer you are to making it a reality.

#4: Learn to love yourself before seeking love from others.

This goes hand in hand with #3 above. We all carry baggage that weighs us down, thoughts and beliefs from past experiences and relationships that significantly impact our current lives and relationships.  Meditation will allow you to reflect inwards and challenge the beliefs that do not serve you. Ask yourself whether those who may have hurt you in the past did so because they were hurting. Look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself, “I love and accept you as you are.” Soon enough, you’ll start to believe it – and other people will too.

WHAT SHOULD I DO IF I STILL FEEL ALONE?

I hope that these tips help you to manifest love and joy in your life. If you still feel alone, and are longing for a connection, know this: You are never alone. You are surrounded by loved ones who have passed. If you ask them for a sign, you just might receive one. Make sure you’re listening for it.

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How You Can Make 2017 Your Best Year Ever

2016 is behind us, and while some of us had a wonderful year, others were all too happy to say, “Good riddance” and looked forward to starting fresh in 2017. We think about how this year will be different, hoping it will be filled with more love, prosperity, and luck. We focus on New Year’s resolutions, like losing weight, meeting the love of our lives, or getting that dream job. The list goes on and on.

Yet so many of us often begin 2017 by failing our New Year’s resolutions, and feeling like we’ve failed ourselves as a result. Nothing really changes.

 How Can I Change the Dynamic in My Life?

Your beliefs about yourself, others, and the world around you attract (or repel) energies, people, and even events. In order to make a lasting change and impact your future, you need to reflect on these beliefs, correct them where necessary, and reset your intentions so that they align with your higher, authentic self.

 By connecting with the spirit world and honing your inner intuition, you can gain increased spiritual awareness that will give you the assurance and confidence in yourself you need to know you are making the right decisions, and fill you with inner peace.  Connecting with spirit is as easy as gazing at your favorite photograph of your loved ones who have died and having a heart to heart conversation.

 How Can a Psychic Medium Help Me Succeed?

 As one of Boston’s best psychic mediums, I act as a bridge between the physical world and the spirit world, and am able to read energies in both worlds. I can communicate with those who have passed over, giving messages to those of us in the physical world who seek comfort or assurance from their loved ones lost. This often provides them closure and relief, so that they can move forward in peace.

I also offer intuitive coaching services. Through meditation and grounding techniques, I help others develop their intuition, which connects them to their authentic selves, and vastly improves their decision-making abilities. I help them to set their intentions, going deep within to reflect on what they truly desire for themselves, so that they can constantly improve their daily lives, inviting in positive energy and abundance for the future.

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