3 Tips To Help You Get The Most Out Of Your Psychic Medium Reading

As one of Boston’s top psychic mediums in practice for almost 30 years, I have helped many clients communicate with their loved ones who have passed over. If it’s your first time getting a psychic medium reading, or if you simply want to improve the readings you’ve been having, here are three tips to help you get the most out of the experience.

Tip #1: No alarms and no surprises.

In order to get the best possible reading, you want to ensure as clear a communication and connection as possible. If this is a phone reading, choose a private, quiet space where you won’t be disturbed or interrupted. If this is an in-person meeting, give yourself ample time – with a little to spare – to get to the location so you aren’t rushing. Those few minutes you’re early will allow you to be relaxed and open.

You’ll also want to make sure you have nothing that may be upsetting or overly exciting scheduled immediately before – or certainly during – your appointment that might divert your attention or occupy your thoughts. Your goal is to be totally present, relaxed, and calm. You see, your energy will affect both yourself and the medium. If you’re in a frazzled state, or thinking about some other pressing issue or meeting you need to be at, you may not hear or recognize the messages you do receive.

Tip #2: Connecting with your psychic medium.

This is crucial. If I am receiving and giving you messages that don’t make any sense to you, please be patient. The spirit that’s coming through is doing their best to lower their vibration to communicate. I am raising my vibration to meet that spirit somewhere in the middle. The reading should settle in once the vibrational connection is right. The spirit may also be new to communicating and not quite sure how it works yet. Of course, if after 10 – 15 minutes you’re still not feeling a connection, tell me and we can decide together whether to continue or end the reading.

Tip #3: Keep an open mind.

While it’s understandable – and can even be beneficial – to have a healthy bit of skepticism going into a reading, you don’t want to be so closed to the experience that you miss out on messages intended for you. Your psychic medium will likely tell you intimate, accurate, and compelling details about your lost loved one that come through during the reading. These details, also known as “evidence,” should prove the identiy of the spirit who is communcating.

A message might come through that you’re unsure about. The way most psychic mediums, including myself, receive information is not linear. We get a lot of messages, sometimes all at once, and we must describe  to you what we see, hear, feel, or know without interpreting. If we interpret the image – we might get it wrong. We describe the image and let you interpret it.

Some things you may not know about your loved one. It may seem like a miss when you hear certain information. Check with a family or friend who is open to spirit communication to see if they may know details that your loved one provided that you don’t know.

Some messages might not make a whole lot of sense to you at the moment you hear it, but will in the near future. You may also feel you’re on the spot in your session. Many people experience, “psychic amnesia” at some time in their session and can’t connect with important details such as their mother’s maiden name. Most mediums know this happens and are not deterred. We know that if a spirit is determined to connect with you, they’ll figure out how to get through to you.

For additional advice on what to expect and how best to prepare for your reading, check out these Reading Tips.

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Advice From Boston’s Top Psychic On How To Manifest Love In Your Life

As one of Boston’s best psychic mediums, I often have clients come to me seeking answers or assurances about their future, including matters of the heart. If you have wondered if and when you’ll find love – either for the first time in your life, or ever again – you are not alone. It’s a natural human desire that we all crave.

WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP MANIFEST LOVE IN MY LIFE?

While I am able to help my clients gain the self-awareness, self-assuredness, clarity, and serenity that opens them up to receive the love they seek, there are a few things I encourage everyone to practice on a daily basis to help manifest authentic love in their lives.

#1: Listen to – and trust – your gut.

When we’re confronted with a decision we need to make, deep down, we always know what the right path is. Problem is, in today’s chaotic world, we’re pulled in so many directions that we’re often disconnected or too busy to really examine how a particular course of action makes us feel. Even just 5 minutes of quiet meditation can help you analyze what you’re feeling – and it is that feeling you need to trust.

#2: Learn from the past, so that you can move forward.

Every single one of us has – and will – face difficult situations in our lives. Depending on our propensity for resilience, we can either dwell on or ignore it (both of which can keep you stuck and susceptible to having the issue repeat itself over and over until you address it), or we can learn the lesson we’re meant to so that we can heal the wound and move forward. If you have had a particularly harrowing event or issue befall you, ask yourself what you’re meant to learn from it, and how it can help you become a stronger person for it.

 #3: Understand that your beliefs are what create your future.

We bring into our lives that which we believe to be true. If you harbor the belief that you are unloveable, it’s almost guaranteed you will not find true love – or if you do, you will give it up because you don’t feel you deserve it. Take the time to examine your beliefs and analyze whether they might not be distorted. Visualize very clearly how you want your life to be – from how you feel, who is in your life and how they make you feel, right down to what you’re wearing and doing. The more believable you make the life you want, the closer you are to making it a reality.

#4: Learn to love yourself before seeking love from others.

This goes hand in hand with #3 above. We all carry baggage that weighs us down, thoughts and beliefs from past experiences and relationships that significantly impact our current lives and relationships.  Meditation will allow you to reflect inwards and challenge the beliefs that do not serve you. Ask yourself whether those who may have hurt you in the past did so because they were hurting. Look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself, “I love and accept you as you are.” Soon enough, you’ll start to believe it – and other people will too.

WHAT SHOULD I DO IF I STILL FEEL ALONE?

I hope that these tips help you to manifest love and joy in your life. If you still feel alone, and are longing for a connection, know this: You are never alone. You are surrounded by loved ones who have passed. If you ask them for a sign, you just might receive one. Make sure you’re listening for it.

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How You Can Make 2017 Your Best Year Ever

2016 is behind us, and while some of us had a wonderful year, others were all too happy to say, “Good riddance” and looked forward to starting fresh in 2017. We think about how this year will be different, hoping it will be filled with more love, prosperity, and luck. We focus on New Year’s resolutions, like losing weight, meeting the love of our lives, or getting that dream job. The list goes on and on.

Yet so many of us often begin 2017 by failing our New Year’s resolutions, and feeling like we’ve failed ourselves as a result. Nothing really changes.

 How Can I Change the Dynamic in My Life?

Your beliefs about yourself, others, and the world around you attract (or repel) energies, people, and even events. In order to make a lasting change and impact your future, you need to reflect on these beliefs, correct them where necessary, and reset your intentions so that they align with your higher, authentic self.

 By connecting with the spirit world and honing your inner intuition, you can gain increased spiritual awareness that will give you the assurance and confidence in yourself you need to know you are making the right decisions, and fill you with inner peace.  Connecting with spirit is as easy as gazing at your favorite photograph of your loved ones who have died and having a heart to heart conversation.

 How Can a Psychic Medium Help Me Succeed?

 As one of Boston’s best psychic mediums, I act as a bridge between the physical world and the spirit world, and am able to read energies in both worlds. I can communicate with those who have passed over, giving messages to those of us in the physical world who seek comfort or assurance from their loved ones lost. This often provides them closure and relief, so that they can move forward in peace.

I also offer intuitive coaching services. Through meditation and grounding techniques, I help others develop their intuition, which connects them to their authentic selves, and vastly improves their decision-making abilities. I help them to set their intentions, going deep within to reflect on what they truly desire for themselves, so that they can constantly improve their daily lives, inviting in positive energy and abundance for the future.

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Boston’s Best Psychic: Connecting With Lost Loved Ones This Holiday Season

 

The holidays are a time for joy, cheer, and precious moments spent with family and friends. Yet for many of us, this time of year may also bring about sadness and longing for our loved ones who have passed on.

Perhaps you are grieving your first holiday spent without the departed. Or maybe the season simply brings back fond memories for you. It’s also possible, some of us feel melancholic without really looking inward and knowing the reasons why.

If you seek answers, guidance, or comfort from those who have touched your life and are no longer with us, you may want to consider a psychic medium reading to reach out to them.

Can you communicate with someone who has passed?

Our souls survive our bodily deaths. And while I believe we all have an ability to receive messages from those who have passed to the Other Side, not all of us are in tune with the higher vibrations of the spirit world to do so, or to communicate effectively with them.

How Boston’s best psychic medium can help

I have been giving readings for several decades. I act as a bridge between the spirit world and our day-to-day world, and am able to deliver messages from those who have passed on, to those who are in the physical world. This is my ability, my gift, and I have honed it so that I can share it with others.

Many of the spirits close to us want to let us know that they love us, are with us, and will always be with us. This knowledge can provide so much comfort for those they have left in this world.

You probably have someone very particular in mind that you wish to hear from this holiday season. While I can’t guarantee this spirit will show up, I suggest that before your reading, you set your intentions and call out to them. Let them know you’d like to talk to them, perhaps even sit down and write them a letter.

The holidays are a very spiritual time of year, and the overarching message is one of love. Love for the self, love for others, and love for that which we believe in. Reach out to your loved ones – both those in the physical world, and the beyond – this holiday season.

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Happy Holidays!   MaryLee

The History of Psychic Mediums in the US Part 3

Spirit Communication: Legitimate Practice or Fraudulent Hoax?

Spiritualism was embraced not only because of its philosophical aspects and the comfort and stability it provided (namely, the hope that there was life after death), but also because it combined empirical scientific methods and discoveries of the time, with the religious afterlife.

While the Roman Catholic Church decreed the practice be condemned, it did approve the scientific investigation of related psychic phenomena. By the end of the 19th Century, spiritualism inspired physic research into the various claims made by mediums and supporters, such as telepathy, precognition, clairvoyance, and spirit contact. The practice became a way to provide evidence to support the religious beliefs in life after death, and the existence of the soul.

Spiritualism gained credibility with the support of distinguished members of society, including the New York Tribune editor, Horace Greeley, and Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, who wrote, in The New Revelation (1918):

The conclusion, then, of my long search after truth, is that in spite of occasional fraud, which Spiritualists deplore, and in spite of wild imaginings, which they discourage, there remains a great solid core in this movement which is infinitely nearer to positive proof than any other religious development with which I am acquainted.

Research at the time proved the existence of clairvoyance and the legitimacy of spirit contact. Sir William Crookes, president of the Royal Society, which is the national scientific organization of Great Britain, investigated and pronounced as genuine, phenomena produced by at least one medium, Florence Cook.

Of course, not all mediums are created equal. This can be said about people in any profession or vocation. There were some mediums exposed as frauds. In the 20th Century, famous magicians like Harry Houdini, Milbourne Christopher, and James Randi joined efforts to expose their practices. This somewhat damaged spiritualism’s reputation and pushed it to the fringes of society, but it was revisited and reborn in full force in the 1970s.

I am a psychic medium who has honed and trained my abilities to communicate with the souls of those who have passed. For more information on my sessions, please contact me here.