Are Psychic Mediums Open to the Spirit World 24/7

Are Psychic Mediums Open to the Spirit World 24/

Working with the spirit world is an honor and the psychic mediums who work with spirit consider their work a calling. Mediums can bring solace to someone who’s lost a loved one and to those in deep grief, closure to someone who didn’t have a chance to say good-bye, and comfort to those who just want to know that their loved one is okay.  Spirit communication is a  sacred experience for both the medium and the person who is the recipient. What do psychic mediums do to manage themselves when working with in this realm?

There is an idea that because psychic mediums communicate with the spirit world that spirits pop into the medium’s day to day activites at anytime and anywhere. Theoretically this is true but in practice, it’s not a good idea. Rest assured that a spirit will find a way to get through if they have an ugent message. Mediums, however, needs to practice self-care and set boundaries with the spirit world and most mediums limit the time when they are available for spirit communication. Staying open 24/7 is unhealthy for the medium for many reasons. Here are four.

Staying open: zaps a medium’s energy making them vulnerable to illness; is exhausting for a medium and weakens their connection with the spirit world which muddles the information; doesn’t allow the psychic medium to have even a somewhat normal lifestyle; and creates the scenario where spirits overwhelm a psychic medium as they try to get a message to their loved ones on earth.

In fact, psychic mediums are trained to limit the time that they are open to spirit communication. Mediums are trained to formally open up to spirit communication before their readings and to formally close down at the end of their readings for the day. Mediums use various types of imagery, such as opening a window, to signal to the spirit world that they’re ready to work. Some mediums signal the spirit world they’re open by reciting a prayer.

There are exceptions when a medium doesn’t formally open up and close down before communicating with a spirit. You’ve probably heard a medium talk about a random spirit coming to them while they were taking a shower or driving their car. Mostly, this occurs when that medium is about to give an individual mediumship reading or a demonstration of mediumship for an audience. Certain determined spirits who want to communicate with their loved ones may show up to secure their spot with the medium ahead of time.

Another exception to the rule is when a medium is dealing with a spirit that has met with foul play or is aware of a situation where there was foul play, and that spirit is trying to get the attention of someone on earth to solve a crime. (I know this from personal experience) Most of the time, however, spirit communication is not urgent, and the spirits wait until the medium is working before they attempt to come through.

Working with spirits requires discipline. Opening up and closing down is just one of many energy hygiene practices a medium must follow to maintain their well-being doing this work.

I hope this gives you some insights into the work and life of psychic mediums. Please feel free to contact me via the contact page on my website if you have questions. Warmly,

 

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Ten Things Paranormal Investigators and Psychics Look For In Buildings With Alleged Paranormal Activity

Have you ever wondered how it’s determined that a building is haunted? Most people and many paranormal groups get their information about hauntings from TV shows. Unfortunately, you can’t rely on paranormal television programs for your education. Their priority is to entertain you and more often than not, the integrity of the investigations are compromised to gain TV ratings.

Paranormal investigations are fun and no-nonsense at the same time. In an investigation,, paranormal investigators and psychics play different roles and have different priorites.A paranormal investigator looks for scientifically verifiable facts such as capturing random unexplainable images on film and random mysterious sounds on audio equipment. A psychic uses their psychic senses; Clairaudience, Clairsentience, Clairvoyance, Clairolfactory, and Clairgustance to detect energy or a presence. I do both.

Here are the top ten things I investigate to determine if a building is haunted:

1) Interview people who live or work in the allegedly haunted building and find out why they think there is paranormal activity. Did they see, hear, feel, smell or taste something unexplainable? Find out where in the building this occurred.

2) Look for natural causes for these unexplainable occurrences.      

3) Take a baseline measurement of the EMF levels in the building. Excessive EMF can cause people to have hallucinations. Rule out or make note of excessive EMF levels.

4) Sit quietly in a meditative state in each room, tune into the energy and ask if there are any spirits there who’d like to communicate.

5) Place my hands on the walls and furniture to see if I get psychic impressions of prior events.

6) Look for unexplainable activity such as flickering lights, a mysterious breeze, or a door closing on its own.

7) Take note of scattered random dimes and pennies lying around.

8) Leave a voice recorder running in a room and review later for strange sounds.

9) Conduct an EVP session and review the recording for strange sounds.

10) Use a video camera to film in a location where paranormal activity.has been reported.

 

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4 Ways A Psychic Can Help You Get Through The Long Winter Months

With overcast skies causing moodiness, having to dodge cold and flu germs everywhere you go, and dealing with slippery icy conditions, it’s no wonder people go crazy in the winter. If you’re not into outdoor sports, you’re forced into hibernation but you don’t get to sleep through it like bears do.

Did you know that when you’re feeling the winter blahs, it’s an excellent time to make an appointment to see a psychic? Here are four reasons why consulting with a psychic might help you to navigate the long winter months with ease.

A good psychic can help you:

1) Uncover unnecessary fears. With less activity and more time on your hands, you might take that excess energy and turn it in on yourself. Irrational fear thoughts can be relentless. A good psychic can help you identify misplaced fears and wrong thinking that contribute to you feeling down.

2) Help YOU to trust YOU again and eliminate self-doubt. If you’re cooped up during a long winter, you may lose a sense of your personal power. A good psychic can give you insights into yourself that restores your self-worth and challenges your self doubt. Once you focus on the truth about your strengths, your inner wisdom and self-trust returns. 

3) Identify ways that you’re self-sabotaging.  If more darkness in winter makes you feel moody, you might inadvertently give in to bad moods and adopt negative behaviors. A good psychic can uncover behaviors you’ve adopted that stop you from being happy. For example – isolating yourself in the winter. Some solitude is good. Complete solitude is probably unhealthy. A  good psychic might encourage you to get out of the house more often or reassure you that this is exactly what you need right now. Sometimes uncovering that you’re sabotaging yourself is enough to motivate you to stop doing it.

4) Learn guided visualization techniques. A guided visualization is a meditation practice where you get insights for yourself. Ask your psychic if they know a guided visualization that they can give you. In this type of meditation you are guided to tap into your intuitive ability to elicit intuitions and solutions without having to go through psychic. You can ask your higher self for its wisdom about getting through the winter.

Here is a link for one of the best guided imagery websites.   Guided Imagery Link

I hope that you’ve found some of these ideas helpful.  If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to contact me.  

Warmly,  MaryLee

 

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What it’s like for a psychic intuitive or psychic medium to give a reading

     

Some people still think that psychics are frauds, research you ahead of time, or are just good guessers. To dispel these myths about psychics, I thought I’d describe my psychic reading process so you can have an insider’s point of view.

Please note that I’m only describing my process. Every psychic gets their information differently so their process may be different than mine. It’s similar in the way that one artist’s creative process is different from another artist’s creative process.

Truthfully, I’m usually nervous before I read for a client. I’m less nervous if I’ve read for that person before because I know they connect with my style which is a little different. I worry that new clients may be expecting the stereotypical fortune-teller. When people come to a psychic they think their life is an open book and their future is fixed and knowable. I don’t believe that you can predict the future with a high degree of accuracy because the future is dynamic. The future changes all the time because everyone has free will to change their mind. When you change your mind, you change your future. 

I read from my living room with my client sitting next to me. After he or she has pulled tarot cards for the reading, I hold both their hands in my hands. I do this to establish a multisensory connection with them. As I hold their hands, I hear sounds, see images, and get feelings and knowings. I also give readings over the phone which for me are exactly that same as if that person is sitting next to me.

When I’m reading, I’m open and receptive to anything that might come through no matter how odd it might be. There are no words to adequately describe what it’s like. You have to have it yourself to know what it’s really like. It’s different from thinking thoughts or feeling emotions.

My intuitive pops come one after another. The images I receive are subtle, translucent, and disappear right after I notice them. The information I hear comes in quietly. Intuitive feelings linger until I describe what I’m feeling. If I can’t quite hear the information – it’s usually because the client is likely to resist what I’m telling them.

If I’m getting information clairsentiently, like the emotion of joy or fear, I feel it throughout my body. Having given so many readings my clairsentience is finely tuned. I feel subtle nuances. The feeling of anxiety is different than depression and fear seems different than terror or rage.

Frequently people ask me if giving readings is exhausting. Personally, I don’t get tired unless it’s a difficult reading. I do go into an altered state so I can get spaced-out. After a reading I may need to eat something or reground myself. I find if someone comes to their reading exhausted or sleep deprived, I get sleepy and can hardly stay awake for the reading.

 In our training, we’re told to, “give what we get.” This means to describe the information we’re getting through our senses but not to interpret the meaning of that information. The problem being the psychic may misinterpret what they’re getting. Describing what you’re seeing, hearing, feeling, knowing, smelling or tasting is the best way for the client to recognize what the psychic is talking about.

 I hope this post is helpful to you. Hopefully, it dispels the idea that psychics just make everything up. If you have other questions, send them to me using the Contact Us form on my website. Please feel free to suggest other topics as well.

Holiday Wellness Strategies

I know you’re already in the thick of things when it comes to the holidays. Did you know that there are approximately 41 days every year from the beginning of Thanksgiving week to January 1st, the end of the holiday season? It’s a fun and festive time and it can be stressful. Even our furry friends get bluesy.

Since we’re only half way through the season, now would be a good time to checkin with yourself. If you haven’t put wellness strategies in place STOP and consider doing this now. Maybe you’re enjoying yourself and sailing through the holiday season with bells on. In that case, wellness strategies are important to maintain your happiness. You might, however, be struggling with the down side of the holidays- anxiety and depression. You may be grieving. Many people feel sad during the holidays. In that case, wellness strategies are important to manage your moods and to push you to be with people and do activities that are uplifting.

The most important thing you can do to ensure your wellness during the holiday season is to plan ahead. Focus on what really matters. Then, focus on you and what you need. Finally, focus on others. When you focus on self-care, you’re more available to others. You’re more mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually aware and you bring your best self to the party. You can be there for others when you’re there for yourself.

Click on the links below to read articles from WEBMD and The Huffington Post on taking care of yourself during the holidays. These two articles are all you need to come up with your own best strategies.  Best wishes,  MaryLee

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