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Are You Open To Receiving?

April 15, 2020 by bostonintuitive Leave a Comment

I was just putting the finishing touches on this article when COVID-19 took over our national consciousness. Overnight, our collective priority was on GIVING and what you can do to help. Less than a month later, millions of people have been infected and over 100,000 people have died, elevating our sense of community and humanity. GIVING & RECEIVING takes on a whole new meaning. I hope that those who suddenly find themselves on the receiving end will benefit from this post.

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A few months ago, I was involved in a car accident where I received some injuries that put me out of my routine. Thankfully, I am fine, but I needed to take time out to recover – both physically and spiritually. As I recovered, I was put into a position where I needed to accept help from others around me.

It was during this time that I started reflecting upon our ability to give and receive. I realized that…

Being open to receive can change a person.

Let me explain what I mean by this.

I’m a giver by nature. I give of my time and my talents to my friends, family (of the four-legged kind as well), loved ones, and clients. I have always felt fulfilled in this role as a giver.

Over the past few weeks, however, when I’ve had to accept assistance from others, I realized just how much my identity had been tied to being a giver.

I learned that I wasn’t comfortable with receiving help from others. I wasn’t used to it, and I wasn’t open to it.

Receivers, on the other hand, are happy to take.

Have you ever seen a child accept gifts? A smile crosses their face, and there is no pause in them, no inner questioning about whether they’re worthy of such a thoughtful surprise. They just take it with a grin. And if you’re a giver, bestowing such glee on another is hugely satisfying.

But do you find yourself uncomfortable being on the receiving end of gifts or help?

If you are, then opening yourself up to such receiving can change you.

Here’s why you should consider opening yourself up to receive:

You need to fill your tank (to receive) to be able to give to others. Think about caretakers. When a person continually gives without receiving, they may end up sacrificing their own spiritual and physical well-being. It’s also known as burnout. If you don’t receive, you may find yourself depleted.
The laws of abundance, karma, or whatever you may wish to call it, are always in play. If you accept gifts of love or kindness, you will inspire more of the same in your direction. Your soul and your world will be brighter.
You will be allowing another person to feel good about giving. Remember the happiness I referred to above that some people get when they give? You would be granting someone else the opportunity to feel this happiness when they give to you.
You deserve it. And this is the crux of this post. This is where being open to receiving can change you. It can be challenging to really look at ourselves and believe we are worthy to receive. It puts us in a vulnerable state to receive because we aren’t in control. It forces us to trust those around us who wish to give to us. When you open yourself to receiving, you open yourself to a more abundant world, one where you see yourself as deserving and worthy of the time and help of others.

So how can you open yourself to receiving?

It’s essential, to be honest with yourself and with your emotions. Consider this quote:

“We need people in our lives with whom we can be as open as possible. To have real conversations with people may seem like such a simple, obvious suggestion, but it involves courage and risk.” – Thomas Moore

Now, this quote makes sense when we think of relationships with others. Read it again and think of how it pertains to your relationship with yourself.

To receive graciously, you need to confront your feelings, your self-worth, and your vulnerability. This takes courage – and risk.

You are likely aware that as a psychic medium, I can help you communicate with your loved ones who have passed over. But that’s not all…

I am also an intuitive, and I can help you channel your energy to discover what you want out of life. I can help you step into your innate power. It’s here that you will let go of your current experience and tap into your higher self. It is here that you will find out what your soul truly needs to feel nourished, what you are thirsty and hungry to live your best life. Imagine the world of possibilities you will expose yourself to once you open yourself to receive.

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Practical Strategies For Quarantine

March 24, 2020 by bostonintuitive Leave a Comment

Our new reality is that we will be self-isolating for, perhaps, 30 to 45 days in light of the coronavirus pandemic.

This might mean cabin fever for some. For others, it may not be too much of a change to a homebody lifestyle. But in all cases, this is the new norm we’re living.

Don’t fret about what’s out of your control.

It’s essential for our spiritual health to realize that there are some things we can’t control. Obsessing about the things that are out of our hands is unproductive. It doesn’t help the situation at all, and in fact, it can debilitate you to do so.

**Focus on what you can do to strengthen your mind, body, and spirit.**

As Boston’s top psychic, I recommend that you concentrate on the things that you can control.

Here are some strategies to help make for a smoother quarantine.

#1. Keep a schedule.

It will help to stick to a schedule Monday through Friday, just as you did when you went into work. Not only will this make it easier for you to transition back to your in-office job post-quarantine, but you’ll find a sense of purpose, comfort, and calm by staying on task.

Make actual appointments in your calendar to work out. And be sure that you get outside at least once a day for a walk or even just to take in the fresh air and some sun.

You’ll also want to get into a sleep routine, strengthening not only your body to fight illness, but also your mind and spirit, which need to be equally as healthy during these trying times.

#2. Take advantage of free services and programs online.

Many companies and organizations realize what a difficult time this is for everyone and are doing their part to serve the community. Several are offering free services or tools to the public.

For example, the New York Public Library and Amazon’s Audible are offering free books. The Houston Zoo has a live feed every day that focuses on a different area of the zoo. There are even free classical symphonies you can watch online. Perhaps you suddenly find yourself having to homeschool your child(ren). Look for online educational learning tools that have free extended trials.

Take this opportunity to check around and see what might be available – either free or paid – that can give you some knowledge, perspective, or even just a little bit of entertainment when you need it most.

#3. Engage in online or TV yoga or qigong.

It’s important to stay active, especially since we are homebound and not getting out as much as we used to. Find an online or TV program that gets you fit. Half an hour a day is all you need to stay healthy. Yoga or qigong is perfect for smaller, indoor spaces. The bonus is that not only do they stretch your body and get the blood flowing, but there’s a secure mind/body connection at work as well.

#4. Consider finally going for that online degree.

If you have savings and a nest egg built up, you might consider taking a course toward that certificate, diploma, or degree you’ve had your eye on. Now that you have the time to do it, why not advance your career in the off-time.

#5. Get (back) into cooking.

Fuel your brain with brain food, like unprocessed whole foods and water. You don’t have to rely on fast food since you aren’t rushing and on the go. Hone your cooking skills, and concentrate on what goes into your body. This will not only help you think more clearly, but you will feel better.

#6. Stay social.

If you’re a social person who needs interaction, you can avoid feeling isolated by taking walks and greeting (at a distance) those you may pass. FaceTime friends and family who are local and that you can’t see, and others that are at a distance that you might not have otherwise had time to chat with. Another idea is to use online platforms to engage in gatherings, like a book club.

#7. Practice mindfulness and meditate.

Take time every day to go inward and meditate – even if this means just catching and releasing negative thoughts. If you’re concerned about sickness and illness, allow yourself to experience the idea. Then quickly release it. Acknowledge it, but don’t dwell on it. Force your brain to think a neutral or positive thought immediately afterward. For example, think, “I’m well-rested.” Stay positive. Positive thoughts, positive words, and positive hearts will help us through.

#8. Take this time to reflect.

Before this pandemic, we were living in an incredibly fast-paced world, running from errand or task to errand or task. Now it feels like the Universe has hit the pause button. This is the perfect time to take stock of your life as it stands.

Are you happy? What changes can you make that might improve your life? What is it that you want? Getting in touch with your higher, authentic self will help bring you closer to where you genuinely need to be in this Universe. Without all the distraction and noise of our everyday lives, we can focus on this.

Yes, there are more substantial things happening around us to occupy our minds and hearts, but as I said earlier, it doesn’t help to obsess about that which we cannot control. So perhaps focus instead on what you can…

And it’s with this step, that I may be able to help.

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Over the past 30 years, I have used my intuitive gifts to help my clients connect with their higher selves so they can live their best lives. My intuitive \sessions have helped many clients to achieve self-actualization. If you’d like the help of an intuitive and want to book your SKYPE or phone session, CLICK HERE.

Faith During Times of Uncertainty

March 18, 2020 by bostonintuitive Leave a Comment

If we’ve learned anything from COVID-19, it’s this:

Life is unpredictable. Life is uncertain.

All-day, we are faced with news of COVID-19, and we brace ourselves for the latest headlines. Where is it in our country? Our city? Our neighborhood?

While we all pray for COVID-19 to be over quickly, no one has the definitive answer as to whether it will be. We must rely only on probabilities – because there are no certainties.

So what can we do in a time of such considerable uncertainty?

Various reputable organizations have put out information on how we can best protect our physical selves from contracting and spreading the disease.

But what about our spiritual selves?

Now more than ever, we must remain mentally and spiritually healthy – and have faith.

We must maintain faith in our ability to handle this situation – and any circumstance, for that matter. We need to learn to trust in the knowledge that the Universe is working in our favor and toward our best interests.

Faith gets us through these times of uncertainty.

So I suggest getting comfortable with the idea that there is a lot we don’t know, a lot we can’t know, particularly right now.

By doing this, you can make a sort of shift in your thinking and way of being. You move away from fear and toward something lighter. You let go. You trust in a higher power – one that has your best interests in mind and will take you where you need to go.

There are so many unknowns in this life. But every day offers us a choice. We make those choices based on our thoughts and beliefs.

And it is through our daily decisions that we build our futures.

As Boston’s top psychic, I propose that, at this time of great uncertainty, you ensure your thoughts and beliefs are in line with your authentic, higher self – and that they not be mired in darkness or negativity.

Sometimes our thoughts are so automatic that they feel like maxims. But if we go inward and examine them, we see that they are based on beliefs erroneously held. So we need to go inward and reflect upon whether our current set of beliefs match our authentic selves – so we can ensure we act in accordance and alignment with our true spirit.

So that we can let our real light shine, giving us the strength and faith we need to carry on.

The only way to continue to live your best life – even amid this uncertainty – is to ensure that you are connected to your higher self and making choices based on beliefs that will help you live out your dreams and desires.

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Calming Your Coronavirus Fears

March 12, 2020 by bostonintuitive Leave a Comment

COVID-19 is all over the news, and many of us find ourselves in a constant state of anxiety as a result.

And while it’s always good to be informed about how best to protect ourselves, and to be prepared for life’s unexpected twists and turns, I suggest you take a moment and examine the effect this may be having on your spirit. You may find that your emotional health is taking a pretty big hit.

We all hope and pray that the coronavirus will be contained soon so that we can go about our regular, everyday, healthy lives. But in the meantime – or until that time…

We need to return to a state of calm and remain centered under pressure.

As Boston’s top psychic, I suggest that the best way to deal with anxiety and uncertainty is to tune into and connect with our spirit, our true self. Setting an intention to remain calm is the only way to get our power back in disempowering times.

You see, your higher, authentic self is one that resides deep inside you. It lives apart from the noise and distractions of our daily lives.

It is here that your spirit lives in its natural state of peace, in alignment with the Universe and with the unknown. Yet many of us do not take the time to connect with it, listen to it, and abide by it.

By tapping into your spirit, you will feel calmer and make choices that better shape your future.

Particularly during times of heightened anxiety, it’s imperative that your actions not reflect anxiety and fear.

That’s because, by going down the right path with your thoughts and actions, you come away with a more robust mental perspective, one that puts you at a higher vantage point to deal with pressures out in the physical world.

I have helped countless clients get in touch with their higher selves. They come away with a greater sense of peace as a result and find that with practice, they can reach inside themselves to connect with their higher spirit daily to find that peace during times of chaos when they need it most.

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Over the past 30 years, I have used my intuitive gifts to help my clients connect with their higher selves so they can live their best lives. My intuitive sessions have helped many clients calm their fears. If you’d like the help of an intuitive and want to book a SKYPE or phone session, CLICK HERE.

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3 Tips To Help You Manage Your Psychic Sensitivity

March 5, 2020 by bostonintuitive Leave a Comment

Are you the type of person that easily homes in on – and feels – other people’s emotions?

Do you not just feel those emotions, but take them on as your own?

Are you typically overwhelmed in crowds and find yourself too easily adopting the ‘mood’ of the crowd?

Do these feelings emotionally or energetically drain you?

If you answered ‘yes’ to any of the above questions, you are likely highly empathic.

Being highly empathic means you are psychically sensitive and very attuned to others’ feelings. So much so that you identify other people’s emotions as your own.

The problem for those of us who are empathic is that we tend to pick up on other people’s stress and carry it with us in addition to our own anxiety. This can be a very heavy load that becomes burdensome for us to carry.

If you want to start lightening this weight, the following three tips will help you better manage your psychic sensitivity.

#1. Stop, assess your feelings and determine whether they are yours – or someone else’s.

On those days when you feel out of sorts or just not yourself, take a moment to check in with none other than you. Evaluate what you’re really feeling. Then ask yourself: “Are these my feelings or someone else’s?”

A couple of follow up questions that can help you determine the answer to the above question is “Why am I feeling this way? What is the cause of it?” You will hopefully be able to separate out the baggage that isn’t yours and clear your emotional palate before acting on feelings that aren’t your own.

#2. Take time away.

It’s important to spend some time alone, doing something that relaxes and recharges your mind and body. Maybe you enjoy reading, swimming, running, meditating or cooking an elaborate meal. Or it might be as simple as staying in and watching your favorite movie or TV show. When you consistently give back to yourself, you put yourself in a stronger mental, emotional and physical state. This strength can help you manage your emotions in those social situations where you may need it.

#3. Get in touch with your authentic self.

When we connect with our higher selves, we become aware of our deepest feelings, thoughts, and desires. Without all the background and day-to-day noise, we are able to learn what we truly need to live our best life.

By tapping into your own innate intuition, you will discover what your higher self feels, needs and wants. Once you are aware of these needs and wants, you can put into place a plan of action that will result in a happier life, one that you didn’t even think was possible.